He has to "hate" you. That is the only way that they can justify to themselves the horrible treatment they dole out to the ones that loved, trusted and cherished them the most. Remember this says nothing about you, it only reflects about him and his OW.
*hugs*
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
