Tyler-detaching means you don't let her dictate your mood. She is happy to see you, great-you are happy and attractive tyler. She wants to go out-you are happy attractive tyler. BUT if she ever disrespects you, call her out on it, but be happy attractive and in control tyler. She wants you to put up with something that is intolerable-nope, but you remain happy attractive tyler. Get the point?-you are awesome. Even if you are calling her on her bs you are awesome. You're in control. Think of an airline pilot. You are the pilot. You do whatever you need to but she only hears the calm voice on the PA.
