Zues - you've convinced me. I sure wish I'd had this insight years ago...things would be so very different now. Wow. Maybe I'll get a chance in the future to correct this wrong. Who knows?
Jelly - can't help you there. It really bites not having a drive anymore. But why on earth do you think the men were having chore sex? Men love it, can never get enough...it was a chore? Huh.