I don't think this is necessarily an issue of gender.
In many ways I am the female version of you, and have struggled in both of my commited relationships with what you describe as male female dynamic. I hated feeling that my men were having "chore sex", made me feel completely rejected and whore/slut like. I found myself feeling ashamed of my desire and need for physical imitmacy, touch and passion.
I think there is something more complicated going on here. I would love to figure it out so I don't have to feel like I have to deny this aspect of myself.
What do you think?
Cheers Jellybxx
Sorry JulieH, I didn't want to max your thread out.
