Wow, I like your H reply to your son, classy! Personaly I think you did well not to reply to his text. This isn't one way street : one rule for him and another for you! Wake up H Earth is talking to you!
Yes, classy. Explained everything to the poor boy. Not. I'd love to know why it is so complicated too. Doesn't seem complicated from where I'm sitting. Either you want to rip a giant hole in your kid's hearts or you don't. Either you want to work on M or you don't. Pretty basic stuff really. I find it quite easy not to reply to his texts as I never have my phone on me unless I'm out and it's in my handbag! If I'm home it is still in my handbag so I genuinely don't even hear it. Probably the only thing I'm good at in this whole DBing thing is not checking my phone and texting!
Originally Posted By: Rouky
Him shouting at you is because he is angry because you have decided not to play by his rules. I'm not a vet but I'll say keep what you are doing as you are getting some reaction from H. I wish I would a bit of that with my H!
Thanks Rouky, I appreciate all advice, vet or not! I am so lost with all this that it's great to get other people's opinions.
