Need a little insight on a subject. When I call my older 2 kids, which I do every other night to see how they are and what's new. Do talk to them and not offer to talk to W? Do I not make it an option for kids? She has totally distanced herself from the older 2 because it hurts her to be leaving them after she has been their step mom for 1/2 their lives. So I don't plan on asking her if she wants to talk to them. But do I deny the kids talking to her? Do I ask them if they want to talk to W? D is 12 S is 9 and I know they are hurt by this sitch
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
