Walkaway Wife/WW/MLC Part 2

[jjal]

No contact since last Wednesday. I am sure it is coming though, she's wanting to D super fast! Anyway, last Wednesday I congratulated her on her promotion. She replied back thanking me for that, thanking me for doing something for her parents, and then wished me a Happy New Year's. I was going to wish her the same, but I decided to stay NC. I feel bad because I didn't wish her a nice safe night at least, but couldn't bring myself to do it. I think I'm actually beginning to choose my own self-respect more than her.

Still even though I'm doing good during the day, the subconscious mind has other ideas for me. Waking up with my heart racing for whatever reason is troubling.

So, I know she has an EA, hard to deny that, and it probably has progressed a bit past that, no proof though. She's been gone for 6 months now, and on the BD date, I asked her if there was another guy, she said no. I found out who it was, and it was who I suspected a week after she moved out. I've not once mentioned his name or even let on that I know what is going on. I just let her go. Has anyone else ever not confronted about a sneaky relationship? I totally want to, I really do, because I want to see the look on her face, but I really don't want to put any emotional time into it. Same with him. I have his number and have his email address, and could absolutely confront him too, but, not worth my time. Better spent reading a book...