Back to square one, not sure I can do this again!

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He was telling me to completely detach and move on. Said he wouldn't make a good H for ANYONE and didn't seem interested in working on himself now (and probably not ever). He was telling me that H would never be able to love me in a mature relationship and would never appreciate what I have to offer or even be able to see me as a good person because he has already convinced himself otherwise (even before all of this started) and will be unwilling and unable to change his view of me without help that he won't ask for. He gave our relationship about a zero percent chance of working unless I am interested in knowingly and willingly be married to someone that can never truly appreciate me or return my love in an adult and mature way. He said he's just too damaged from his childhood and his outlook on people in general. Sounds kinda bleak.