Question? Why are you going to "work with him"? The only thing you should be worried about is protecting your future. Any and all discussion should be between the lawyers. He's not interested in your welfare. He's proven he can't be trusted. I don't want to be harsh but I'm concerned for you.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming