Separated- Wife in Emotional Affair

[Chris82]

So how will I know when the time is right to begin talking to her again? I know that this process is for myself and throughout our separation this past month I have made significant changes to my life that I am quite proud of. I have a feeling though that the NC will effect my wife a great deal as I have always been the type of person to be there for her in her time of need or just a chat, no questions asked.

When will I know when I should be receptive to her calls again or if she is just wanting another slice of cake? I want to remain resolute in my values and what I want out of life and in my marriage but I also don't want to put up a front that I am unapproachable and have written her off. I do still love her very much.