When H and I first split up, I took every opportunity to check his phone, IPad, computer. Checked his pockets, etc.
One day it finally dawned on me that if I found something it would only hurt me. I couldn't stop him if he wanted to be with someone else. Out of my control. I have spent nights alone at his place and have not snooped at all. Trust me it's hard, but better in the long run.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
