G8r I am so sorry you are here. You have come to the right place to help with your M, but mostly to help with you. You will hear a bunch of advice that seems wrong, but it is best to just listen to the vets, they have great advice.

This is going to be a long journey. There is no magic words or actions that can help you quickly. But time can be a gift if you allow it to be a gift.

Step one is to gather some solid goals for yourself. Things you can achieve results with and measure. We can help push you (kicking and screaming) down the right path.

Post as often as you need to, it really helps.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!