Thank you! I completely agree. I feel like an addict. I did really well for a while but I'm sucked back in. Each time I want to go the page I need to remind myself I need to be all about me. Not about them. H was given no indication he's coming around. He told me and others that his leaving me has nothing to do with her. (only partially true). The divorce is coming very quickly - maybe next month. I. must. move. on.

FYI, I do a lot of GAL and overall am functioning pretty well. I think the stress of the impending divorce and the uncertainty of the settlement has pushed me over the edge.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming