I agree thrice. I'm so happy for you, where you're at. Knowing what you want, and not putting up with c**p, is awesome stuff.
In the last 48 hours I'm to a place where I'm ok now with the M burning to the ground. Lots of pain ahead, but I'm not getting consumed with the fire. I put my firehose away, stopped spraying water on the dumpster fire, and have started to move on.
Last edited by trumpet; 01/06/1606:11 PM.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)