I am a master snooper also. Fortunately H deleted his FB account and OW blocked me. And I don't have access to H's phone records anymore. But I can see OW's husband FB and some of her daughter's and mother's. I learn a lot. Like OW is not living with H like I thought. She is back in NJ and went to a Christmas party with her H. Her mother was visiting for Christmas. Her H applied to retirement and is planning to stay in NJ because of a sick family member (OW). Her H and her mother are talking about a cruise next year. And today he posted a video of a guy who discovered his wife with another man and calmly asks for a divorce.
Also, because of a box H left my basement I know OW mailed him something mid December using my H's last name in the return address.
So the snooping really doesn't do anything but keep me agitated because H is still set on a D.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming