Most of the time - I control my urge to snoop. Most of the time. Every once in a while, when I feel like torturing myself I guess, I will sneak into Facebook through a back door to see what he is doing.
I never like what I find. I go longer and longer stretches between snooping missions - If only to protect my heart.
I'm only confessing so that you don't feel all by yourself in violating the rules. It does us no good. It creates ill-feeling. It accomplishes nothing.