Hi Isit, just bringing your queries over from Huddy's thread...

What is the timescale for filing for unreasonable behaviour - this could be done immediately, but the grounds have to be true and they could be contested by the other party - of course that get's expensive.

What are W's options if I dont move out? Well, I guess she could move out if she chose to. Equally, she could choose to file on UB grounds with you in the house I suppose.

She can move out and/or she can file for D (via unreasonable behaviour) or we live in limbo? or she can threaten D unless I move out?

Anything I'm missing? - I don't think so.

My options? Stay in limbo or separate (but the divorce timeline starts ticking)

I think that's about it Isit - I would certainly arrange a free L consultation though. I'm only posting from my own limited experience!

Take care xx


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