You're absolutely right. It is something for another day.
You're working on a new R with H, and it could take many different forms. Too soon to start thinking about it.
You have a dog and two cats. I have the same. That is hardly a stable-full of animals. Yeah. I'd probably keep my pets, and let H live elsewhere if he had a problem with them. LOL I really understand where you're coming from on that one.
You're correct in just taking it one day at a time, embracing each day as it comes. I'm kind of jealous. I haven't had sex since before BD...my lady parts are going to dry up and fall off before this is all done!
Lucky you, to be in such a good spot at the moment. I am so very happy for you.