First time posting. Waw and trying to repair

[Mona52]

I would let her proceed. There is nothing you can say or do to help her right now, but there is a ton you can say that will put you further behind. So my advice is to get out of this conversation about how she feels quick. No replies. She did not ask you a question, so you dont have to reply.

The main thing is she does not want help with the way she feels. If you offer help or suggestions or even opinions, it will push her away. fast. If she brings up her feelings, just validate and dont say anything one way or another.

"i can understand why you would feel that way. What should we make fore dinner?"

"I am sorry if that stresses you, do we need milk from the store?"


I loved your " If you want to be part of what I am doing great. If not I am not going to enjoy it anymore or less." Nice work!!