Great advise being offered, and you yourself seem to be handling this as objectively and as calmly as possible. Keep it up. You are obviously the strong one In this relationship. Remember that.
One thought i had. Other woman sounds dangerous. Almost like the type you would be watching a film about. What type of person woukd put the time and effort in to target you in this way? Obviously we can't diagnose, but some narcisissitic, sociopathic behaviors you might want to read up on to figure out how to handle this. She is looking for reactions and it sounds like a really sick game. I think you should educate yourself on best ways to deal with person like that. Vanilla and others might have better insight.
Obviously any relationship between the two of them will not last. She will get bored. Perhaps the attitude, "you can have him. He's all yours. It's not hurting me much" will make her give up? Just don't let yourself be their common enemy. I think give husband space and time to figure this out on his own. Be gracious and friendly, but At the same time don't enable in any way. Act in your best interest financially. The more you react, the more husband will run and the OW will be getting to see you emotional and distraught (her motivation)
Last edited by JulieH; 01/06/1604:22 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
