Return or My WW - Staying Stong!

[Strngr!]

Yes. I agree with you on her comment. That is a bull-manure statement. Selfish to spend time with your son? What an idiotic statement.

It was designed to attempt to make you feel guilty so you would let this go her way. Ignore, and do what's best for you.

Avoid the temptation to point out her selfishness. Just be calm, strong, and firm. "No, W. I've thought about it, and I will continue to pick up S. He is in great hands, and will come to no harm in the brief period of time you're not there. I cherish my time with him, and am not willing to accommodate your request."

She was saying its selfish of me to want to be there for him because she thinks he should spend as much time the the 2 of us as possible. I want to show him that i am a good father and i can be there to pick him up. I dont want to have to realy on w on my days off tp pick him up then we have to figure out where tp meet to do the swap. I also feel like the swap is easier on him when it happens as part of his normal daily routine. I agree the selfish comment was made in an attempt to make me feel guilty. I will have to write down your wording it sounds very good. Thanks again!