I feel the need to ask though, and I know I can'r really trust anything she says. In terms of EA's that a wife insists that there is no PA. How often is that a lie?
I think I am being wise by assuming that they intend to or have already taken it to that level, I'm just curious.
Here's what helped me.
Lets say I assume theres no PA and find out there is. The result is that I am going to be hurt by the revelation again in the future.
On the other hand, lets say i assume there is a PA and find out there isnt. The result is that I may be happily surprised in the future.
The way you interact with WW is the same either way, so why not assume the worst? It'll all come out in the end anyway.
