Moving Ahead - In the UK - Huddy (pt16)

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Thanks to NDY, Sotto and Huddy for the great advise and sorry to hijack your thread Huddy

I dont intend to separate or file etc but during our last R talk W implied she wanted a 2 year separation followed by divorce - amicable of course whatever that means.

I don't think W has seen a L and suspect she has spoken to one of her GFs who went through a very messy divorce with an a**hole husband. There was no OM/OW and GF probably D'd via unreasonable behaviour - he watched porn and smoked pot in the house with the kids around - he made the GFs life hell through throughout the D contesting custody and money/pension to get as much as possible from her. - he is a painter/decorator, she a high flying company exec on £100k+!

Sotto: Is there a timeline for D under Unreasonable behaviour?

What are W's options if I dont move out?

She can move out or she can file for D (via unreasonable behaviour) or we live in limbo? or she can threaten D unless I move out

Anything I'm missing?

My options? Stay in limbo or separate (but the divorce timeline starts ticking.