I'm one of those 'sensitive' guys. Cried a lot as a kid.
We want you to be sensitive. It's a very good quality to have in a marriage.
Right now, your sensitivity 'axe' is sharp. You have other tools in your shed that need work. Time to take the grider and some polish out of the closet and figure out which tool needs the most work.
Personally, my physical body needs work. My spiritual life is getting a tune-up. And my friendships other than my WW are being rekindled. Those are my rusty tools.
If we didn't care, we wouldn't post. Would I love my kids if I let them stay up all night? Of course they try me when I tell them it's time for bed. That's their job. I love them enough to be strong, and show them there is a right way to do things, for their good. Good habits become routine when you do them long enough.
We are ALL on the journey. Growth is scary, and really hard. I'm there with you.
You CAN do this.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
