I would lean that the OM contact is done, but remember, don't trust ANYTHING they say.
My wife said the affair was over, and then he texted her, sent a Merry Christmas picture, and now she's filing the D.
She's going through withdrawls. You asking her to think about you really wasn't a wise move. You're hurting, I get it. Find someone to talk to NOT her. You pushing hurt on her will just drive her back to OM. Pressure - have to avoid pressure. You calling is against DB principals.
Live and learn. lather, rinse, repeat.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
