Today has been a little better. I feel a bit more positive, had a good workout at the gym, although I am feeling a cold coming on and am having a hard time breathing.

I have my third therapy appointment tonight.

Today was the cutoff date for the W to use my free benefit to get her individual therapy visits paid for by my company. This frustrates me because although our financial issues are far from our biggest problem this isn't a rare thing that she would spend money and excessively waste, or spend money and not use something, or leave something free on the table and opt for the really expensive option instead.

I realize I have to let that go, but now we will end up paying $1000-$1500 for her first ten sessions, instead of getting them for free. That is frustrating, and my criticism of her is one of our most damaging issues, so I have to eat this one unfortunately. Ultimately my marriage is worth losing that amount of money, but it is a perpetual problem.

Last edited by mbebos; 01/06/16 01:45 PM.
Me:34
W:33
R: 15 years
M: 7 years
W moved out: 11/21/15
BD: 11/20/15 - ILYBINILWY, PA once
LRT: 12/14/15