MLC can be so bizarre. Someone you're closer to than anyone else on earth and who has always loved you, cherished you, etc. becomes completely unrecognizable and has the capacity to crush you. It's really traumatizing. It's hard to know what to do. These type of sites are pretty good at helping to navigate a MLC. Sometimes the plan works. Sometimes it doesn't.
I truly believe that people like your husband, if he doesn't wake up and continues down this path, end up alone and bitter. No loved ones by their side at the end and nobody at their funerals. That's a sad way to go out just because of a stupid MLC. His relationship with the chippie is doomed to failure. The odds are overwhelmingly against him. Nothing borne out of such extreme lies and betrayal can last. You just have to hope and pray they snap out of it before it's too late and you have truly moved on with your life. If that happens then I guarantee at some point he'll wallow in regret that he made the hugest mistake of his life. Those tales are so common. If only the MLC didn't have such a powerful hold on some people.
I am so sorry for you but I agree, you have to worry about yourself at this point. You still have a lot of life ahead of you and it can be wonderful or not, depending solely on you.
You had no say in any of this that has happened to you but you do have full say in how you respond/react/recover from it.
