Tx - wow I wish someone would do that for me. If I did that I know there would never be any chance of R. Just as your W's OM probably never forgave his ex Or maybe she just didn't want him back? But I would think because it wasn't you that left the door open for your wife. Although my H would probably still blame me because I was the one who had the suspicions
At first she did want him back. He had fled to his mother's house out of state but they were talking by phone. Then she did more digging and found out he had cheated on her off and on throughout their entire relationship. Even before they were married. He was an opportunist cheater. Every time an opportunity came along, he went for it. Still, she got his career ended and he still wanted her back. He told her that he saw how hard she was fighting for their marriage and realized how much she loved him. There is a saying that "you can't nice them back" and that saying exists for a reason.
