Hi IS, I can answer for myself and will let Huddy provide his answers

Originally Posted By: isittoolate
Huddy/NDY - a few questions

Did you get a separation agreement when you both moved out of the house?

I didn't no. We attempted this via mediation but those sessions broke down. Once the L's were involved everything changed as ExW was being very unfair.
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How have you dealt with the financials?

Everything is 50/50. To sell the house you need an interim agreement. This is a legal document that the L's will draw up. But both my ExW and I have decent salaries so neither one is dependent on the other. In Scotland that means neither can claim any form of maintenance.
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Does the 2 yr no fault divorce timeline start from the day of physical separation or when the divorce is filed by either party?


In Scotland it starts from the agreed separation date.

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What is the shortest timeline that my W can use if she files tomorrow?
NB there is no adultery,abuse, separation, or other reason for filing.

If the D isn't disputed in Scotland it's still 2 years. If it is disputed it's 5 years from separation date but I'd double check with your own L on this as it may be different in England.

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Do you have any online resources for divorce technicalities for the UK?

Yes, lots but unfortunately we can't post links to other sites here. There is a plethora of resources available if you do a search, especially for 'Dads' (hint hint) that are divorcing.

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I see you are on couple connection site? Is it any good?


NOt sure what this means?
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Sorry for the long list and best wishes to you both.



No problem. One thing I would say though is always seek proper advice from a real L. Above is only my experience so please take it with a pinch of salt. I'm not a L and not qualified to advise in anything Legal.

Cheers


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.