Originally Posted By: Mona52
Hi focus,

I really loved you suggesting he get his stuff from a third person. Brilliant! Yes, they get a bit pushy when we do not respond immediately, even though they ignore us for months.

Try and remember, it does not matter one bit how he feels about your reply or when you give it. Take your time, patience. He has to learn he has zero control over you anymore!

I think you are doing amazing.


Thank you so much Mona52. I discovered just how pushy they can be yesterday wink

Update below.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017