She reached out to tell me about her 'drama' at work in the morning - flooding.
She managed the crisis well and was praised in work by others - I validated and congratulated her.
The evening was ok as well. I did a one hour bike ride testing my new night lights
W told me of some details of the funeral and how she wished it was the 15th (day after funeral) - she will do a reading in church. I think she will breakdown during it.
I had more convos with an old friend at work re: the sitch and what has happened. It's good just to get it out. I also told a family friend (older lady) who is also a sitter for us - she was genuinely shocked and had no inkling of anything going on.
Apparently on 26th Dec family friend asked W to see the gifts I had bought W for Xmas and her birthday and was singing my praises to W saying 'You have a gem of a husband' - oh the irony!
I had a poor nights sleep - I seem to get one good night followed by a poor night.
The evenings are different after the kids are in bed. W still asks if I want to watch TV - but she doesn't change into her comfortable night clothes - she is staying dressed in her day clothes or gym gear with shoes on. I think she doesn't want me to ask her if she wants a shoulder rub/foot rub - I won't be asking her anyway.
Detach and GAL ...DETACH AND GAL. Tonight I have a two hour bike ride with some friends then I will play with the boys
Last edited by isittoolate; 01/06/1608:47 AM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
