Looking forward to the new year

[Painter]

I just realized I expressed myself poorly - I meant if we separate, he will be with someone new quickly. I have no idea if he will continue the A or not, or if he is involved with OW at this point.

Nothing will happen fast here - it's not financially possible right now. But I don't think he will decide to commit to the M unless he feels he is completely free to choose. Of course, I may not be around for that.