yes my L told me she is accusing me of me being the abuser not her , i have never laid a hand on my girls. That it was my fault that baby felt twice since it was under both of supervision ( i have proof that it was her fault). She accusing me that i took the girls to a friends bday party and they came back with bruises and scratches. false again , i took them to a princess party that whole apt was carpet. Good thing i took pictures of the party and the inside of the place it was a nice kept apt. She is req supervised person to be with me when i have the kids because according to her im not a good dad. (this was yesterday over the phone conversation with my L)
after i heard what she is accusing me off and the req that she is making i got pretty angry. I told my L i think thats enough of me being Mr.nice guy. I was just going for the basic every other weekend visitation and i would pay her child support she would be primary , but yet she comes up with these lies. I told her to switch up the order and now i want 100% custody. I told my L to refuse all their offers and tell them we want 100% now. Sure enough today my L calls to tell me that they want to come to an agreement and not go to court, they are willing to drop the supervision person but i would only get them sat 8am-6pm bring them back pickup again sun 8am-6pm, they cant sleep in my house. I told her nope ,refuse that offer. I now want 100%. Sure enough 1 hour later her L calls again with a different offer. They can sleep at my house and i get them 1,3,5 week. I told my L NO! not anymore. we are going for 100% now. So the plan tomorrow is to go to court play chest game according to my L if i like any offer i can take it but we are going to deny everything and get a new court order for 100%. Thats the only way i can force her under my condition for her to take anger management classes and parenting classes.ultimately thats my goal, so my daughters can benefit from that. I am done with her anger issues , i am done with her extreme discipline done to my daughters. I am going to step up for them.
