court date is around the corner

[Painter]

Then wear it. It's your vows you are honoring.

Strategically, I think it can only be to your benefit (the judge may notice and it should only add to your credibility).

Best wishes for tomorrow. Keep your composure and emotions under control, it is more important than you can imagine. Look down if she she accuses you of outrageous things or you for any reason need a moment to gather yourself. Expect the unexpected. The judge may look for signs that you have problems controlling yourself.

I hope the judge orders her to produce your children immediately!