New Year..Need new goals

[JGuy]

Hi Rain, it's been awhile. I just caught up on your sitch again. It sounds like you are doing relatively well overall with staying on track and working on yourself. I am only just now finally figuring out how to let go and start to detach. My W is temperature checking and I'm finding it hard not to take the bait and slip backwards. Much of your sitch and the advice you have been given is helping me gain perspective too. I can see how it's true... successful DBing is all about how we come out of this better people. It has much less to do with the end result of whether or not the M is saved. Catching up on your thread just helped me to see that even more clearly.

All the best to you and your kids, Rain. Proud of you!