Thanks ladies. I need to turn the focus back to me and revisit my goals. And get focus of H and OW. But you gals will appreciate this. OWs husband just announced his plan to retire next year, told a friend he was staying in NJ because family member (OW) is sick, and talking about a cruise with OWs mom. Yet she and H are still in contact. Who is playing whom, I wonder.

Ok,New goal:stop snooping. Really, FB is a treasure trove. smile


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming