Separated- Wife in Emotional Affair

[Chris82]

Is this something I should be focusing on at this point? Money and belongings? Its my understanding that these types of things are what are handled during divorce proceedings.

I also have a large commercial zero turn lawnmower at our house that I obviously cant house at my apartment. We aren't legally separated, this is just a trial separation at the moment. I'm afraid to be too rash that might indicate I'm pushing for divorce. I feel like I should be using this time to work on my life and what I want.. not dividing assets and property.. Am I wrong?