Separated- Wife in Emotional Affair

[Chris82]

Thanks Azzork and you are completely correct.

Tonight when she picked up the kids she tried to initiate a conversation about my day, I halted it by laying some ground rules for the kids going forward. I know I have them Tuesday and Thursday until 8pm come Hell or high water. Up unto this point she has used the days I have the kids as a reason to text me just to get a response. I politely told her today that going forward to just understand barring any unexpected circumstance she just pick up the kids at 8. I also told her " What you're engaged in is not okay with me and I won't tolerate it in my life" "I think its just best we not speak" wished her well loaded my kids, got in my truck and went to the gym. I was polite, but firm in my decision. Since I was at the gym shes called and texted me each 3 times fishing for a response.. I've answered none of them and don't intend to going forward.

Now I'm excited to start looking at the man I want to be for my kids and my relationship with my God. Signed up for some local outreach food drives at my church this weekend to fill my Saturday and my first game of disc golf ever.. I'm excited for that. Finally, a shred of peace. I will cherish it.