Azz is always a tough act to follow. I'll just say this- saying "no contact isn't working", with 'working' equating to making WAS come back, well, that's a trap. It assumes there is something that WILL make WAS come back. Since you can't control them you'll find nothing you can do will 'work'. So there's nothing wrong with no contact, any more than anything else. The question is what's best.
That is why you need to redefine 'working' to mean helping you detach, GAL, 180 for you, and use your gift of time. In that way no contact makes a lot of sense until you're far more detached.
Last edited by Zues126; 01/06/1603:07 AM.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
