Peace, Happiness and a New Year

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Hi Hawho, we went to aquatica on our last pre BD family trip. H was mad because S would not try the water slides, it did not go well S is very cautious and low key. Thank you for the kind words

Cali, I knew you would get it. We can't do limbo forever, right? So yes, I am getting to a point where the realization is, no matter how much I live and have fun, H and limbo land is ultimately holding me back from fully healing as the pain continues to come....if he doesn't make a move soon, I will have to.

Sotto, I agree. Dating would not feel right for me unless I was divorced and emotionally ready. No, I have not ridden the scooter! It is sitting in the backyard unused....go figure.

On a different topic, wondering if this is one of those STFU moments? S has to do a book report this month on a person, he picked President Obama. H is up in arms, says we should encourage him to pick someone else because he feels he is a bad president, worried he will get picked on....lol...I just have to laugh. I think S should pick whoever he wants. So, I did not answer about that in my TM. If H is against it, HE can talk to S.....at least he didn't pick Justin Bieber! Lol

So, should I just joke back about it? Stay silent? Or tell him S can pick whoever he wants!? My parenting is a very touchy thing with H, it could blow up if I express I don't agree with him....but seriously!!??