I have been taking care of myself. My kids and I are closer than ever. I have been trying to gal. It's just always on my mind.
My ww and the om keep telling their spouse or hinting that their relationship isn't serious. In her words you are overthinking it. It's not like that. Well am I suppose to feel better that she betrayed me and our family for something that wasn't serious.
Right now I feel like the affairs out in the open. She is really not that into this guy but it's really her only friend right now. She wants to come home but is unsure. She rented this stupid house out of panic and he's staying there sometimes. Now she doesn't know how to undo everything.
I also realize she probably isn't in love with me right now and unsure if that will return. She has seen changes in me. I have handled this whole thing quite differently than she imagined I would. She sees me close to the kids and has gone from telling me I never loved her and the boys to saying sorry about saying such things.
How long should I expect before she comes around. How long before this guys wore out his welcome. All questions and no answers
