Separated- Wife in Emotional Affair

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Chris,

You said you didn't contact her at all... and then you texted BACK to her twice. Then you answered her call... that isn't going dark.

She needs to feel that she lost you. No contact. You can't compete with OM. You could be superman and couldn't get her back.

If it's for kid handoff, or for an event, I understand.

Please read Sandi's rules (stickied on the forum)... and then re-read them.

Yes, she's cake-eating, and as long as she knows she can do it, SHE WILL!

Things will have to get worse before they get better. If you're out of the house, it actually makes it easier to NC.

Imagine her as a baby-sitter - the hand-offs should be quick. You're dying inside, I know, been there, done that.

Stay strong.