My D became a business deal
XH was overspending and going into debt
For me, it was for the best
I didn't want to ruin my credit
I have kids to raise
we had a business,,he was ruining it
It really hard because we all still really care-- but this is the time to get tough
and really think about what is best for you and the kids
My H would have ruined us financially
A good Lawyer is worth a lot
they will let you know what will legally happen and they are out for our best interests
I got my L through a friend --he was recommended as a good one
he gave me an hour free consultation
\In one hour I know what I would get if D went through
I felt empowered so H could not walk on me,,I knew my rights


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow