My D became a business deal XH was overspending and going into debt For me, it was for the best I didn't want to ruin my credit I have kids to raise we had a business,,he was ruining it It really hard because we all still really care-- but this is the time to get tough and really think about what is best for you and the kids My H would have ruined us financially A good Lawyer is worth a lot they will let you know what will legally happen and they are out for our best interests I got my L through a friend --he was recommended as a good one he gave me an hour free consultation \In one hour I know what I would get if D went through I felt empowered so H could not walk on me,,I knew my rights
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