Hi Tyler, very sorry you are here. Under circumstances this is a great board with great people and you will receive great advice. You appear to be doing quite well this early on and per what you've said above, understand that any changes likely will not happen suddenly or as quickly as we'd hope. Realizing this fact is true knowledge my friend. Majority of us are in it for the long haul. This gives us all time to work on who we truly wish to be. We may not have been dealt the hand we're playing, but we can sure do as best we can with what we've got.
Just wanted to extend my support as we are all on our respective journeys under similar events.
M: 33 W: 30 T: 14 M: 9 S2 BD: May/2015 (w moves into spare bedroom one week later) EA / PA (discovered): June/2015 W moves out (living with OM): Sep/2015