Yes, I recognize it's all a terrible loop. I keep trying to break free. It is unfortunate about the bishop (another flawed human being), but I can see his perspective too, for the most part. Today I have decided to call about a coach.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
