Here I am still

[trumpet]

If the Bishop doesn't want to deal with the situation, that's unfortunate and sad.

What have you done today for yourself?

I know a marriage takes two, but it's an equal share. Your husband is not cherishing you - as is commanded by God. Does he treat you like Christ treated the church? If not, he's guilty (and we all are - we all make mistakes, and big ones, too).

I'm a man, a flawed man, who didn't cherish his wife during his marriage. My wife, a flawed woman, didn't respect me, or feel a need to work on meeting my emotional and physical needs. My non-cherishment (is that a word???) led me to not fulfill my wife's emotional and physical needs.

It's just a huge negative feedback loop. Break the cycle. Work on yourself, and find strategies and mechanisms to not affect, or be affected, by your husband's words.