I've since come to the realization that I cannot force this situation and "win" her back. I've tried and said everything in my heart, and she is cold to it all. She wants nothing to do with me right now, and everything to do with him it seems. Am I right to step away at this point and just let it unfold? I don't want a divorce, but it doesn't seem as though this separation is affecting her whatsoever while it's tearing me apart.
YUP ^^^^ this is part of the script and you are on the right track. Read my homework post and keep posting.
You must detach and give her some space, that is first on the list.
