That is your roadmap, in my opinion. Someone else needs to tell him.
Again, Kyrie, work on yourself. Take time to take walks, exercise, find a therapist, get some DB coaching, sleep, get meds if needed - anxiety, sleeping aids. Your mission is to take care of yourself for your family.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)