Becky, for what it's worth... Whenever I had to deal with the legal stuff, I made sure I had some really amazing underwear on. REALLY amazing -- like the kind that I'd wear for a really hot date. I knew what Mr. Fantastic was missing out on and I felt empowered and ready to move forward.
Good luck. It's not fun and it's not fair but It can make your life a lot better.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15