I would agree on the bar scene. I've been separated for a month from my wife. I went to a bar once, and had my fortitude tested on the first night. Luckily I feel convicted in handling this separation properly and with integrity, but it felt nice to have a someone find you interesting and attractive, however that person was not my spouse and that is territory I will not entertain.


Me: 33
W: 32
Married: 4/2007
Trial Sep: 12/5/2015
S:5 y/o S:3 y/o
EA w/OM#1 confirmed and ended: 6/12/14
EA w/OM#2 Confirmed 1/7/2016 still continues