I would agree on the bar scene. I've been separated for a month from my wife. I went to a bar once, and had my fortitude tested on the first night. Luckily I feel convicted in handling this separation properly and with integrity, but it felt nice to have a someone find you interesting and attractive, however that person was not my spouse and that is territory I will not entertain.
Me: 33 W: 32 Married: 4/2007 Trial Sep: 12/5/2015 S:5 y/o S:3 y/o EA w/OM#1 confirmed and ended: 6/12/14 EA w/OM#2 Confirmed 1/7/2016 still continues